IS THERE A POINT OF LIKING SOMEONE YOU CANT HAVE?

[IM GON BE ON MY WORST BEHAVIOR,CAN U RETURN THE FAVOR?]

AS FEMALES,WE TEND TO HAVE AN EYE FOR THE ALREADY TAKEN.IS IT BECAUSE WE KNOW WE CAN GET THEM,OR IS IT BECAUSE ALL THE GOOD ONES ARE TAKEN?PERSONALLY,WHEN I KNOW SOMEONE IS TAKEN,I LEAVE IT ALONE BECAUSE I DONT WANNA BE THE CAUSE OF SOMEONES HEARTACHE.I JUST FEEL THERE IS NO USE OF WANTING SOMEONE THAT YOU KNOW DOESNT WANT YOU AS BAD.THERE IS A LIL THING AS A KEPT SECRET BUT HONESTLY,WOULDNT IT HURT MORE TO HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND,KNOWING THAT AFTER THE PERSON HAS GOTTEN WHAT THEY WANT FROM YOU,WILL GO HOME TO THERE LOVER OR FAMILY?THAT WOULD HURT ME MORE SO I DONT THINK THAT COUPLE HOURS OF PLEASURE IS WORTH IT.NOTHING INSPIRED ME TO WRITE THIS,JUSTA TOPIC THAT CAME TO MIND SO IFU CAN RELATE OR U DISAGREE,COMENT OR TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS.WOULD YOU RATHER DEAL WITH SOMEONE THAT IS IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE U GET WHAT U WANT AND THEY GO HOME,LEAVING YOU TO BE?OR IS BEING THE OTHER WOMAN TOO MUCH TO HANDLE?

[33njfemale]

I know that's rite im single and loving it also....And it feels great not have to answer to any one.

[IM GON BE ON MY WORST BEHAVIOR,CAN U RETURN THE FAVOR?]

happy new years to you also and thanks for commenting.i agree with that,ive been in certain situations that i was tempted to say well she aint my girl so it dont matter but at the same time im like,she will do to me what she did to the toher lady so hey.ive been single for a good minute and im loving it.no explaining where im at,no arguing,no heartache.just all fun joy and smiles

[33njfemale]

I think at some point even if you're looking at it that the person gives me what I want and have to go home to they girl. Eventually someone will catch feelings and get hurt so I think it's all a waste of time.Find someone who wants you for you and is single. I have been single for a year and a half now and Im just fine cause I refuse to settle for something I that's not mines....Happy New Year Lady s!

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lol u funny as shit and no this wasnt about you.you not the only one i know thats in a relationship and i was juss curious.trust me,its bait out here and im not the type to go after the already caught.....thank you!!!! lol

[luving u with every breath]

but wut would be better finid someone else .

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hmmmmmmmmmm u sure u aint write this bout me lol